What Does Premature Ejaculation Mean?

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Talking about sexual health concerns can feel awkward. Sexual health needs open and honest conversations. Premature ejaculation (PE) isn’t something you need to feel ashamed of. It’s way more common than most people think, and knowing about it is the first step to manage it.
PE happens when ejaculation happens sooner than you or your partner would like during sex which can make both unsatisfied. Whether it’s a once-in-a-blue-moon thing or a challenge for a long time, you need to know that you’re not alone- and there are solutions out there.
In this blog, we’ll talk about what PE actually means, why it happens, and how you can tackle it (without all the complications).
What is Premature Ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation, sometimes known as early or rapid ejaculation refers to when a person ejaculates before or too early during sexual intercourse – in this case, most people can’t voluntarily control their ejaculation. PE can have a huge impact on both physical and psychological health affecting sexual relationships, forms of sexual activity, and sexual function in general.
While there is no correct time or ‘time limit’ to explain how long one should last during sex before ejaculating, the consensus among specialists is:
If a man ejaculates before penetration or lasts less than 2 minutes after penetration (all or most of the time), and/or if it leads to frequent dissatisfaction for him or his partner, he may have PE.
How Does Ejaculation Work?
During sexual activity – intercourse or outercourse – sexual stimulation helps a person to feel aroused. When an erection happens shortly thereafter, friction during sexual intercourse or any other forms of sexual activity allows for impulses to reach the spinal cord and then the brain.
Ejaculation is a reflex (an ejaculatory reflex) that is controlled by the CNS or central nervous system. When a man reaches orgasm, ejaculation or release of semen happens.
How Common Is Premature Ejaculation?
PE is quite common, with research saying that 1 out of 3 people can suffer from it in their lifetime. While it is quite common to believe that sexual disorders only affect those who are above 35 or 40, this is simply not true. PE can affect those who are younger as well due to the different types of causes behind it.
Those with PE symptoms are always (or most of the time) ejaculating before penetration or less than 2 minutes after penetration. They are unable to delay their ejaculation during sexual intercourse which gives them anxiety about performance and sexual distress and affects their intimacy and relationships.
PE can be treated through medications like oral SSRIs (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors), psychological therapy (such as behavioural therapy) and adopting a better lifestyle.
What are The Different Types of PE
Primary Premature Ejaculation
- This is when a man has experienced symptoms of PE right from the start of his sexual life.
- It happens most of the time or always during sexual activities.
- It’s a lifelong condition and isn’t linked to any specific health or psychological changes- it’s just always been there.
Secondary Premature Ejaculation
- This is when a man starts having PE after having normal ejaculatory control earlier in his life.
- It develops later, often due to stress, other health concerns (e.g., hormonal changes, prostatitis), or relationship problems.
The treatment for PE will depend on the type of PE and its underlying causes. We recommend working with a qualified doctor to get a thorough diagnosis so that a treatment can be planned for your exact needs. All of Allo’s treatment plans are 100% science-backed and personalised to bring you recovery that is long lasting.
Premature Ejaculation Causes
PE is a common sexual disorder and has many risk factors and causes associated with it. Understanding the causes behind Premature Ejaculation will help you to identify the symptoms you might be experiencing. Just like most sexual concerns such as erectile dysfunction, PE too has its causes divided into two factors:
Physical Causes
- Sexual disorders such as Erectile Dysfunction
- Hormonal imbalance or abnormal hormone levels (which can be detected through lab tests or blood tests)
- Neurotransmitter (NT) abnormalities or irregular levels of NTs
- Prostate infection or inflammation
- Urethra infection or Inflammation
- Genetics
Psychological Causes
The smooth working of ‘physical hardware’ or genitalia isn’t the only thing needed for sex to be satisfying and comfortable. The mind and body together affect the sexual arousal phases.
Some mental health concerns that can lead to PE:
- Early exposure to sex
- Learnt behaviour (engaging in quick masturbation)
- Loss of self-esteem or body image concerns
- Depression
- Chronic stress
- Performance Anxiety or other anxiety disorders
- Interpersonal concerns within couple(s)
- Sexual Abuse
- Guilt
- Sexual repression
Can Addictions Cause Premature Ejaculation?
Substance abuse or drug addiction affect negatively on many sexual effects like libido, erection, ejaculation and orgasm. To a certain extent, it can all affect fertility as well. Recreational drugs such as cannabis, cocaine and amphetamine have been said to cause negative effects with ejaculatory control or climax control.
What Medications Could Cause Premature Ejaculation?
There are some medications that can lead to PE symptoms, some of which include:
- Medications used for Parkinson’s disease
- Antidepressants
Symptoms of Premature Ejaculation
The main symptom of PE is the inability to delay ejaculation which leads to quick or rapid ejaculation. This causes frustration and sexual dissatisfaction to your partner(s).
With these sexual disorders or concerns, sexual function or sexual performance is affected and coping with it can be quite challenging. While the person having these symptoms feels some psychological effects, the partner(s) involved is also affected here. The fact is that all those involved can be affected.
Primary Symptoms
- Ejaculation Happens Too Quickly: Ejaculation repeatedly or nearly always happens within one minute of penetration. In cases of non-penetrative sex, ejaculation always happens way before the person’s wants.
- Inability to Delay Ejaculation: The person always loses control over his ejaculation during sexual activity, even when he wishes to take the experience a little longer.
- Get Less Sexual Satisfaction: Either partner can feel frustrated or dissatisfied due to the premature timing of ejaculation.
Secondary Symptoms
- Fear or embarrassment due to premature ejaculation might cause the person to reduce sexual activity or avoid intimacy altogether.
- Feeling guilt, shame, frustration, or anxiety due to the inability to control ejaculation at the time of sex.
- Break intimate relationships due to dissatisfaction or mismatched sexual expectations.
Associated Psychological or Physical Symptoms
- Performance Anxiety: Due to the psychological and physical stress of “performing”, many men feel a mounting pressure to “last longer in bed.” The inability to delay ejaculation may cause the person to feel this same pressure of performing which can make PE symptoms worse such as involuntary ejaculation or ejaculation before time.
- Erectile Dysfunction (in some cases): Premature ejaculation can lead to other sexual dysfunctions, if not treated – especially ED. However, normal erectile function can resume when Premature Ejaculation symptoms are treated.
- Physical Causes: In some cases, underlying conditions like prostatitis or thyroid imbalances might make the PE worse.
When To See A Doctor?
Due to the stigma already there with sexual dysfunctions, many people experiencing Premature Ejaculation hesitate to get any help from a sexual health expert or professional. While it is very common that many are nervous to see a doctor, in a majority of the cases diagnosing Premature Ejaculation does not need a physical exam. Symptoms of PE can affect your sexual performance and mental health – if you are having any concerns or symptoms related to ejaculatory functioning – such as early ejaculation – we encourage you to reach out to a professional.
Due to the many causes behind PE, a holistic evaluation can give you the necessary insights into your symptoms. Based on this and your medical history, your PE symptoms and its underlying causes will be treated.
You should see your doctor if you are having:
- If premature ejaculation happens regularly or almost always during sex.
- If you are unable to delay ejaculation for more than one minute after penetration.
- If your condition is causing emotional distress to you and your partner.
- If it is affecting your confidence, self-esteem, or mental well-being.
- If you are having relationship problems due to dissatisfaction
- If you’re having any other sexual dysfunction related to erections or ejaculation
- You have been diagnosed with chronic health conditions that can be a risk factor for Premature Ejaculation
Learn more about how Allo Health can help you manage the symptoms of Premature Ejaculation.
Diagnosing Premature Ejaculation (PE)
Many men having PE symptoms suffer in silence and often don’t speak to their sexual partners about what they may be facing. However, we’re here to tell you that not only is Premature Ejaculation treatable, but its diagnostic procedure isn’t something scary as it can be portrayed.
Due to the fact that Premature Ejaculation can be caused due to many factors, the diagnosis is done after a thorough and complete evaluation. This is important because accurate diagnosing can help in effective treatments – PE is a treatable condition.
A physical exam is not always needed – this is done when there is a suspicion of physical factors.
While that’s one of the reasons behind understanding the medical conditions of the patient, medical history-taking helps sexual health experts to get a birds-eye view of the physical status of the patient.
What a Sex Doctor Might Ask You:
- Have you been diagnosed with any chronic illness?
- Like Diabetes
- Abnormal levels of hormones
- Have you been diagnosed with any mental health condition?
- Have you been prescribed any medications for your health?
- Have you been diagnosed with any risk factors associated with PE?
- Have you had any adverse effects of any medication?
- Are there any biological factors or genetic factors affecting your health?
To Know Your Sexual History
- How long do your symptoms last?
- When did the symptoms of rapid or early ejaculation start?
- Was there an event that triggered the symptoms?
- When was the last time you experienced “normal ejaculation?”
- Have you ever been to therapy before – individual therapy or couples therapy?
- What do you think is an average time or “normal” time for ejaculation for you?
- What is sexual health for you, the sexual response cycle, intimacy etc?
- Are you and your partner(s) satisfied with your sexual performance?
- Have you previously had concerns with the ejaculatory reflex?
- How long have you been in sexual relationships?
- Do you have a history of sexual abuse?
- Do you have a history of performance anxiety?
- Do you understand the different types of sexual stimulation?
Blood tests/hormone levels check
This is done to rule out any medical conditions such as:
- Diabetes
- Heart disease
- Thyroid conditions
- Testosterone levels or hormonal fluctuations
Psychological examination
This helps a professional to better understand how the person is coping with their sexual health concerns. Conditions such as the following can lead to or be caused by PE symptoms:
- Depression
- Anxiety
- Chronic stress
- Inability to communicate
- Fear of rejection
- Hesitancy to seek treatment
Lifestyle And Nutritional Examination
Your lifestyle can greatly affect your sex life and PE symptoms. Some questions that your doctor might ask you are:
- How often do you exercise?
- What is your daily diet?
- When was the last time you got a full body check-up done?
Additional Tests (If Necessary)
To rule out other underlying conditions that might contribute your PE:
- Hormonal Tests: To check testosterone levels, thyroid function tests.
- Prostate Examination: To check for any infections or abnormalities.
- Neurological Tests: Assess nerve function if neuropathy is suspected.
Your PE treatment plan is based on your diagnosis – that’s why a total evaluation is important. Sexual health is as important as physical and mental health. In most cases, one consultation can go a long way. Personalised, discreet, and judgement-free treatment at your fingertips – book an online consultation with one of Allo’s leading experts.
Premature Ejaculation Treatment
There is a lot of hesitancy to get the treatment for Premature or early ejaculation. However, PE is a fairly common condition and can be treated. If left untreated, this sexual disorder can lead to other dysfunctions such as Erectile Dysfunction or concerns with Performance Anxiety.
The goal of Premature Ejaculation treatment is to treat the exact cause behind an individual’s symptoms. It is important to remember that regardless of physical conditions factors or mental health factors, Premature Ejaculation is a treatable condition.
The following are the most common ways Premature Ejaculation can be treated. A physical exam is not always necessary for diagnosing and treating PE.
Topical Anaesthetics
Doctors may recommend the use of anaesthetic sprays and numbing creams such as lidocaine, prilocaine, or benzocaine. These numbing agents are to be applied to the penis, for around 30 minutes or more, before sex. It reduces the sensation over the penis and helps in delaying ejaculation.
Oral Medications
While most drugs don’t have approval for consumption by the FDA for treating PE, some specific ones have the license of use for this condition. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or antidepressants, phosphodiesterase-5 inhibitors (PDE-5), and analgesics are given prescription dosages and should be taken following the advice of a medical professional only.
Self-Help Techniques
Stop-Start Technique
This is a technique which is also called edging and is useful to delay the ejaculation time in the beginning. The man attempts to do this via a series of masturbation exercises.
The following are the steps for this technique:
- Begin sexual stimulation (this can be through intercourse, self-stimulation, or manual stimulation by your partner).
- When you feel you’re about to reach the point of no return (orgasm or ejaculation), stop all stimulation completely. This pause helps reduce the tension and allows your excitement to decrease.
- Once you feel the urge to ejaculate has subsided, restart stimulation.
- Repeat this cycle 3–4 times before allowing yourself to ejaculate. Over time, this practice helps you recognize your body’s signals and delay ejaculation more effectively.
Squeeze Technique
- Simulate (through masturbation or sexual intercourse) the penis until the urge to orgasm occur
- Squeeze (or ask your partner to) the penis head until the erection diminished
- Start the stimulation again.
- Repeat this process about 3-4 times before orgasming or ejaculating
Psychological Therapy
Many patients having PE, mainly young males, have psychological causes behind their PE symptoms. These are mental health conditions such as anxiety, depression, stress, sexual pain disorders, etc.
The goal of psychological therapy to help rectify PE symptoms is to first determine the psychological cause behind PE. It is to help a person not only focus on performance but be in the moment.
Psychological therapies are:
- Behavioural therapy
- Couples therapy
- Individual sex therapy
Many medical treatments help with premature ejaculation or the control over ejaculation; however, there is no permanent cure for the condition. People can learn to control their ejaculation for sexual satisfaction through medical remedies, supplements, and exercise. Surgical options such as dividing the nerves to reduce penile sensations are still considered experimental.
Allo Health makes treating Premature Ejaculation quite easy for its patients. From complete diagnosis to personalised treatments- behavioural therapy, medication, and lifestyle changes—our experts have treated over 10,000 cases of PE among a total of 75,000 successful sexual health consultations. With online consultations and 20+ conveniently located clinics, Allo gives discreet and affordable care to all your sexual needs.
Key Takeaways
- PE can sometimes lead to infertility or other sexual concerns such as performance anxiety or erectile dysfunction. It is important to speak to a sexual health professional at the earliest if you are having any symptoms.
- Delaying treatment can affect the effectiveness of treatment; do not ignore any symptoms you may be having.
- There is non-judgmental care and treatment available. Try to overcome your fears by getting professional help. An online consultation with Allo Health from the comfort of your own home gives you more control of your health.
- Leave the internet out of this: your treatment and care has to be unique to your needs. Treatment for Premature Ejaculation is based on your symptoms, its duration & severity and your sexual wellness goals.
