Patient Story 21: How a Man’s Journey to Overcome Sexual Health Issues with Expert Help, Leads to a Joyful Relationship

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Dr. Vatsal Suchak did his MBBS from MIMER Medical College, Talegaon, Pune and MD from Yenepoya Medical College, Managlore. He also completed a certified course on SexualHealth for Mental health professionals by Allo Health. He also achieved an additional DNB Psychiatry degree by clearing required exams. He is a certified is a psychiatrist committed to enhancing both mental and intimate well-being. With a holistic approach, Dr. Vatsal combines psychological expertise with a nuanced understanding of sexual health and delivers care to his patients.
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Updated on 10 February, 2025
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Meet Abhishek, a 39-year-old man from Hyderabad who now lives in Kalyan West, Mumbai. Abhishek had problems with early ejaculation and weak erections, which affected his relationship. These issues made their intimate moments brief and left his partner unhappy. This strained their emotional bond and overall happiness, causing tension between them. Solving these problems to improve their relationship and find joy together became crucial. This story will show how Abhishek discovered his path to wellness with comprehensive care that changed his life.
Recognizing the Problem
Abhishek had been happily married and was living a cheerful life with his wife. However, he had been dealing with premature ejaculation, where he used to ejaculate in just 2-3 minutes, and also experienced weaker erections. Even though he used to be satisfied with his sex life, these issues had become more frequent, causing dissatisfaction for him and his partner. His erection problems and quick ejaculations had led to disappointing sexual experiences.
Unlike many others, Abhishek was also facing Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and performance anxiety as well. It’s not rare for people of his age to experience such problems. These issues are often caused due to daily life stress, societal pressures, and relationship conflicts. These issues can affect not only older adults but also younger individuals.
In his attempt to fix these problems, Abhishek was consulted before for the same sexual issues and tried every remedy suggested to him. He even tried various herbal remedies he found on websites like Google and YouTube. Unfortunately, these did not work. Realizing this, he knew he needed professional advice.
It’s also important to note that Abhishek has diabetes, which is already poorly managed. He was not even taking proper medications for this. The combination of his diabetes and sexual health issues has been frustrating for both him and his partner, prompting him to seek professional help.
Getting Help from Experts
After realizing he needed professional help, he learned about Allo Health while browsing Practo. He found some videos there that resonated with him and caught his attention. He looked up more information about Allo Health on Google and decided to schedule a screening call, followed by a walk-in appointment. He was encouraged to visit the Allo Health Sexual Health clinic Kalyan West, Thane where Dr. Vatsal Suchak was assigned to him.
During Abhishek’s first appointment with Dr. Vatsal Suchak in March 2024, the doctor carefully reviewed Abhishek’s situation. He discovered that Abhishek was experiencing premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, and was also feeling anxious about his performance.
Reflecting on their discussion, Abhishek said, “Dr. Vatsal understood what I was facing. It made me too focused on timing and not enjoying the moment.” Dr. Vatsal reassured him kindly, explaining, “Premature ejaculation and erection issues are common and can be treated easily.” Abhishek left the clinic feeling hopeful about improving his intimate life.
It’s worth noting that by March 2024, Abhishek had already consulted healthcare professionals for similar sexual health issues. During this initial consultation, he was diagnosed with premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. His early blood sugar readings were concerning, indicating that his issues could be due to a combination of psychological and biological factors.
Finding the Main Reason: Diagnosis and Realization
At Allo Health, Abhishek worked with Dr. Vatsal to understand his problems. Dr. Vatsal found that Abhishek’s premature ejaculation was mostly due to mental stress. His diabetes also affected his physical and sexual health because he wasn’t taking the right medication.
Abhishek said, “I didn’t realize how much my diabetes and mental health were affecting my sexual health. Dr. Vatsal showed me how my body, mind, and sexual performance are all connected.”
Dr. Vatsal identified two main issues for Abhishek: psychological stress and diabetes. Stress was a major factor, and not managing his diabetes properly also impacted his sexual function. Understanding the link between stress, diabetes, and sexual health was crucial for creating an effective treatment plan. This was an important step for Abhishek’s recovery and overall well-being.
Treatment and Challenges
Abhishek began his treatment for premature ejaculation (PE) using a combination of medicines, dietary changes, and a healthier lifestyle. His medicines contained an anesthetic spray, that reduces the sensitivity of the penis just before the sexual intercourse. It also has a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI), which increases the amount of serotonin in the brain, which helps to regulate our mood, he also took an amino acid and a dietary supplement that is helpful for the body to build protein and to treat zinc deficiency, vitamins for the overall health and (PDE5) phosphodiesterase 5 inhibitors to treat his erection issues. These treatments worked together to offer a well-rounded approach to his condition, improving their overall effectiveness.
His doctor reassured him that the pills had minimal side effects and were not habit-forming, addressing any concerns Abhishek might have had about using them. During his fasting period, Abhishek chose not to take his medications, leading to a temporary halt in his treatment. He planned to continue his medications after the fasting was over and to have a follow-up appointment. His treatment plan included both lifestyle adjustments and careful management of his medication.
He has also been suggested to follow this advice:
- Relax and Enjoy: Abhishek was advised to relax and focus on enjoying intimate moments rather than worrying about his performance. This helps to reduce anxiety related to sexual activities.
- Exercise and Diet: He was recommended to engage in regular physical activity and follow a balanced diet. These changes are important to manage his weight and improve overall health, which is essential for quicker recovery.
- Mindfulness and Therapy: To effectively manage stress, it was advised to practice mindfulness and consider therapy. These strategies help calm the mind and can improve emotional well-being.
Abhishek’s treatment plan included a mix of diet, exercise, special exercises, medications, and lifestyle changes to tackle his premature ejaculation. However, his treatment faced challenges when he started having severe headaches and dizziness two days after his screening, which happened during his religious fasting. This caused his doctors to change the doses of his medication plan and adjust accordingly. The goal of his treatment was to not just manage his symptoms quickly but also to improve his long-term sexual health and wellness.
Abhishek’s experience shows that problems like premature ejaculation, erection issues, and performance anxiety can be managed well with the right combination of medication and lifestyle changes. It’s crucial to seek professional help as Abhishek did, which can greatly increase your chances of improvement. However, keep in mind that treatment results can vary from person to person.
The Path to Getting Better
Abhishek chose to get his medicines from Allo Health because it was less expensive than other places. He also liked that the medicines were delivered to his home without anyone knowing. To help him remember to take his medicines, he set up reminders. These reminders are very important for helping people stick to their medication schedule, especially for long-term treatments or medicines that need to be taken at certain times.
Allo Health also reminds patients to book their next appointment and helps fix any problems that might stop them from getting the treatment they need. Since he started with Allo Health in March 2024, a month has passed. Abhishek completed his medication and followed all the advice he received. He continued to attend his follow-up sessions as Dr. Vatsal recommended. He kept adjusting the medication dosage according to Abhishek’s condition. His problem with ejaculating too quickly, which used to happen in about 2-3 minutes, has improved significantly. Now, he can last almost 15 minutes. Allo Health kept sending messages to check on his treatment and see if everything was okay.
Before each visit to the doctor, patients filled out a form to share their progress. This helped the doctor decide what to do next. In April 2024, during his final check-up, he saw better control over his premature ejaculation and erection issues. His time to climax increased to 10-15 minutes. With this last follow-up, his condition improved greatly, and he was completely cured and feeling much better. Abhishek followed his treatment plan carefully and finished it successfully.
Abhishek’s story highlights the importance of seeking help for sexual health issues. He improved by receiving medical care and making lifestyle changes, addressing both his physical and mental challenges.
If you’re facing similar problems, remember that reaching out for help is courageous and crucial. Abhishek’s journey shows that sexual health issues are normal and treatable. Getting support can greatly impact your life.
So, don’t hesitate to consult professionals who can provide personalized advice. Your health matters, and taking steps to resolve these issues can enhance your relationships and overall well-being.
